Ashley Ramos, M.A., LMFT
Welcome!
I'm Ashley (she/her), a passionate and dedicated therapist specializing in individual and relationship therapy with a focus on intimacy and sexual health. With a playful yet sophisticated approach, I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where clients can explore their inner worlds and cultivate healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
As the founder of Insightful Intimacy Therapy, I bring years of experience working with diverse clients, including those in LGBTQ+ communities, alternative lifestyles, and those exploring BDSM, kink, and ethical non-monogamy. With a background in attachment-based, existential, narrative, and sex therapy modalities, I tailor my approach to meet each client's unique needs and goals. My goal is to empower clients to embrace their authentic selves, navigate life's challenges, and foster deeper connections with themselves and others.
We’re A Good Fit if You…
Seek a supportive, non-judgmental space to delve into your sexual well-being and explore your desires openly.
Are looking for someone who can navigate the complexities of intimacy, whether with yourself or in relationships.
Prefer therapy that goes at your pace, whether that means deep reflection or a lighter, playful approach.
Value a balance of empathy and direct feedback to help you grow and desire to challenge your perspective to develop new insights about your life and relationships.
Appreciate a therapist who can hold space for both laughter and tears in your healing journey.
Want a therapist who understands the intersection of cultural identity, sexuality, and mental health.
Want to work with a therapist who understands and affirms LGBTQ+, kink, and non-traditional relationships.
Picture this: therapy sessions that feel less like stuffy appointments and more like insightful conversations over a cup of coffee. As a seasoned therapist specializing in the intricate dance of diverse individuals and relationships, I bring a splash of humor, a dash of wisdom, and a whole lot of heart to our sessions.
My Story
My journey into the world of sex therapy began with a deep curiosity and passion for understanding human sexuality. In college, I had the opportunity to be a teaching assistant for a pleasure-focused sex education course, where I helped students better understand their sexual desires, learn how their bodies work, and navigate communication about sex safely and from a place of empowerment. This experience fueled my passion for open, informed discussions about sexuality.
Professionally, I immersed myself in the field of sex research, working as a lab manager for three years on projects focused on the stigma faced by those in the LGBTQ+, Kink/BDSM and consensually non-monogamous (CNM) communities. This research wasn't just academic—it was personal. As someone who is connected to these communities, I know firsthand the challenges of navigating a world that often misunderstands or marginalizes alternative sexualities and relationship structures. My work led to several publications aimed at helping clinicians provide better affirmative care to clients in these communities, making sure that therapy is not just a space for healing, but also one of understanding and acceptance.
Today, my practice is rooted in the belief that everyone deserves a space where their needs are valid and their journey is respected. Whether you're exploring new aspects of your identity, working through past experiences, or simply seeking a deeper connection with yourself and others, I'm here to support you on your path to sexual empowerment and authentic intimacy.
Professional Background
Master of Arts (M.A.), Marriage and Family Therapy
Chapman University, Orange, CA | 2021Bachelor of Arts (B.A.), Psychology
Chapman University, Orange, CA | 2018Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #148125
CA Board of Behavioral Sciences | Exp. 07/2026Sex Therapy Experience: I’ve been working as a sex therapist for 2 years under the supervision of Sara Hoadley, LMFT116971 and Dr. Estefanía Simich Muñoz, PhD, LC4138, CST, CST-S. A majority of this work has centered around increasing women’s sexual desire or ability to orgasm, addressing sexual desire discrepancy in relationships, navigating ethically non-monogamous relationship structures, and challenging sexual shame that limits sexual enjoyment.
