Ashley Ramos, LMFT, CST
Welcome!
I'm Ashley (she/her), a passionate and dedicated therapist specializing in individual and relationship therapy with a focus on intimacy and sexual health. I offer a warm, open space where you can explore your inner world, deepen your relationships, and reconnect with pleasure, confidence, and meaning.
I’m the founder of Insightful Intimacy Therapy and an AASECT-certified sex therapist, which means I’ve completed extensive post-graduate training in sexual health, therapy, and clinical supervision. My work centers around supporting diverse individuals and couples—including those in LGBTQ+, kink/BDSM, and non-monogamous communities—who are seeking support around intimacy, identity, and self-trust. I frequently work with women exploring desire and orgasm, couples managing differences in sexual desire, and anyone navigating the complexity of shame, pleasure, and connection.
My approach draws from attachment theory, existential and narrative therapies, and sex therapy frameworks. I tailor each session to meet your unique needs—whether that means unpacking identity, shifting old patterns, or creating new rituals for connection. My work is grounded in the belief that healing happens in relationship—to self, others, and the body.
We’re A Good Fit if You…
Seek a supportive, non-judgmental space to delve into your sexual well-being and explore your desires openly.
Are looking for someone who can navigate the complexities of intimacy, whether with yourself or in relationships.
Prefer therapy that goes at your pace, whether that means deep reflection or a lighter, playful approach.
Value a balance of empathy and direct feedback to help you grow and desire to challenge your perspective to develop new insights about your life and relationships.
Appreciate a therapist who can hold space for both laughter and tears in your healing journey.
Want a therapist who understands the intersection of cultural identity, sexuality, and mental health.
Want to work with a therapist who understands and affirms LGBTQ+, kink, ethically non-monogamous and other alternative relationships.
Picture this: therapy sessions that feel less like stuffy appointments and more like insightful conversations over a cup of coffee. As a seasoned therapist specializing in the intricate dance of diverse individuals and relationships, I bring a splash of humor, a dash of wisdom, and a whole lot of heart to our sessions.
My Story
I'm a certified sex therapist through AASECT, the leading organization for advancing the highest standards in sexual health and therapy. But long before my certification, my journey began with a deep curiosity about human sexuality and a passion for helping people feel empowered in their bodies and relationships.
In college, I served as a teaching assistant for a pleasure-focused sex education course, where I supported students in understanding their desires, learning about their bodies, and practicing open, shame-free communication around sex. That experience sparked a fire in me for creating spaces where sexual wellbeing is treated as integral to overall mental health.
I went on to spend three years as a sex researcher and lab manager, studying the stigma experienced by LGBTQ+, kinky, and consensually non-monogamous (CNM) communities. As someone who personally identifies as kinky and non-monogamous, this work was both professional and deeply personal. It led to several publications aimed at helping therapists become more affirming, inclusive, and clinically competent when working with clients across the spectrum of identity and desire.
Now in private practice, I specialize in supporting individuals and couples in reclaiming their sexual agency, healing from shame, and cultivating deeper intimacy—both with themselves and with others. Whether you're navigating challenges with desire, exploring identity, or simply longing to feel more connected and alive, you deserve a space where your experience is honored and your growth is supported.
Professional Background
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST)
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists | 2025
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT)
CA Board of Behavioral Sciences | 2024Master of Arts (M.A.), Marriage and Family Therapy
Chapman University, Orange, CA | 2021Bachelor of Arts (B.A.), Psychology
Chapman University, Orange, CA | 2018
